Most of us are led to believe that happiness is a final destination — one that can be reached if we make the right choices, learn from our mistakes, and keep pushing forward. We are taught that, once we finally find it, we’ll be forever satisfied in our lives, and so we live feeling overwhelmedContinue reading “What you were told about happiness is not true…”
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Willpower, and where is it?
Willpower In 2011, 27% of the respondents of the Stress in America survey reported a lack of willpower as the greatest obstacle to change. While appreciating that data can be said as dated, I just wanted to use it to define what I am trying to explain. Forgive me for a moment. We rely onContinue reading “Willpower, and where is it?”
Being Resilient
Resilience is what gives people the psychological strength to cope with stress and hardship. A sort of mental reservoir of strength that people can call on in times of need to carry them through without falling apart. Psychologists believe that resilient individuals are better able to handle such adversity and rebuild their lives after aContinue reading “Being Resilient”
Talk
HSE figures published in November 2020 (for the 12 months up to March that year) stated 17.9 million sick days – that’s 54% of all sick days – were due to Stress, Anxiety and Depression. The percentages more or less match the previous couple of years; it’s just the numbers are getting bigger. And theseContinue reading “Talk”
There shall be Hope
Each of us has experienced how awful 2020 has been and yes, we have all been affected in some way by COVID-19 and it’s variants. Throughout all the sadness it’s been too easy to focus on the negative things, because the truth is, it has been bloody awful. But let’s not forget, there is anContinue reading “There shall be Hope”
Eat and still be Merry!
Over the next couple of weeks you’re going to see a lot of these in various places, so I apologise now, I just thought to share some tips on how to stay on track during the holidays, even when faced with some of the toughest social situations which will test your self-control! Find a healthyContinue reading “Eat and still be Merry!”
Beat the tiers
Many of us will be concerned about the impact of the second lockdown on our mental health – especially now the days are getting colder and darker, because our focus and motivation levels can easily drop. One of the most effective ways that you can avoid bottling up your feelings, or letting feelings of stressContinue reading “Beat the tiers”
10 Pieces of Advice for Amazing Change
I’m fortunate because I’ve had the chance to personally coach a range of people since I started in 2001. Many people have been to my website and I’ve engaged with most of them through comments and emails. The time spent with people has given me the experience of seeing first hand what people are strugglingContinue reading “10 Pieces of Advice for Amazing Change”
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